| Non-Fiction:
The Handbook to Life in Renaissance Europe by Sandra Sider (mostly cultural reference: politics, religion, some art & architecture stuff)
Daily Life In Renaissance Italy by E. & T. Cohen (sociological reference)
The Civilization of Europe in the Renaissance by John Hale (some stuff about the nitty-gritty of daily life but also a lot about cultural and political attitudes)
Renaissance Europe 1480-1520 by John Hale (mostly sociological)
Daily Life in 18th Century England by Kirstin Olsen (some daily grind stuff)
The Extraordinary Origins of Everyday Things by Charles Panati (not 17th or 18th century specific but contains spatterings that include technological innovations of the period you're looking for)
The Evolution of Useful Things by Henry Petroski (I recommend this title, the section about food utensils alone will have you appeciating our modern age so much more)
The Art of Renaissance Warfare by Stephen Turnbull
Weapons & Warfare in Renaissance Europe by Bert Hall
The Renaissance Drill Book by Jacob de Gheyn (period book, believe it or not still in print)
The Medieval Machine by Jean Gimpel (can't recommend this book enough, even though it focuses on AD900-1300, you'll have a much better grasp of technology leading up to the renaissance)
European Weapons & Armor From the Renaissance to the Industrial Revolution by Ewart Oakeshott
The Martial Arts of Renaissance Europe by Sydney Anglo
Fiction:
Girl With A Pearl Earring by Tracy Chevalier
The Three Musketeers by Alexandre Dumas
any of the works of Patrick O'Brian
Lord Hornblower by C.S. Forester
The Name of the Rose by Umberto Eco (and several other works by the same author)
The Agony & the Ecstasy by Irving Stone
Niccolo Rising by Dorothy Dunnett
Journal of the Plague Year by Daniel Defoe
The Decameron by Giovanni Boccaccio |